Couples get married with the hope of staying together for life.

Unfortunately, divorce has become popular in South Africa, where more than 50% of marriages end in divorce, and the rate is even higher for second or later marriages.

Every couple has problems, and that's just the way it is.

Successful couples know how important it is to work through problems, which helps them grow both as a pair and as individuals.

When problems aren't dealt with, they can get worse and cause marriages to end.

When a couple knows the signs that their marriage is in trouble, they can decide if they can resolve the problems and save their marriage or if they should just get a divorce.

Here are seven signs that a marriage may be coming to an end: 

1. Lack of Sexual Intimacy:

It's normal for sexual desires to change over the course of a marriage, but when a couple has a major lack of sexual intimacy or desires that don't match, it can cause trouble. If this part of the relationship is ignored over time, it can hurt the marriage.

2. Getting angry with your spouse a lot:

It's normal to get angry once in a while, but if you're always angry, it could mean there are deeper problems. Unresolved anger, whether it's internal or external, can do a lot of damage to a marriage. In cases of abuse, it's important to find safety and help.

3. You don't want to be alone with your partner.

The initial excitement of a marriage may wear off, but if you always don't want to be alone with your partner, that's a bad sign. If you can figure out why you feel this way, you can get a better idea of where the relationship stands.

4. Lack of respect:

Respect is one of the most important parts of a happy marriage. If you don't care about your partner's beliefs and decisions or treat them with disrespect, the relationship could end.

5. Lack of trust:

Another important part of a good marriage is trust. Without trust, the base falls apart, and it can be hard to put it back together after cheating.

6. You don't like your partner:

If you continue to dislike and feel uncomfortable around your partner, it means there are greater problems in the marriage. Couples treatment can help figure out if the relationship can be saved.

7. Ideas about the future Exclude Your husband:

If you don't think about your husband when you think about the future, it could mean that you and your partner are going in different directions, which could put your marriage at risk.

It can be hard and stressful to deal with the end of a marriage.

If you are thinking about getting a divorce, it is best to talk to someone about it.

Find out about child support, child custody, the division of property, and other important problems.

This will help you make good decisions during this hard time.

Getting help from Pauw Attorneys can be a good idea for a number of reasons, since they put the person's well-being and peace of mind ahead of pointless legal fights.

1. Pay attention to your own well-being.

Pauw Attorneys know how hard divorce can be on a person's emotions. During this hard time, they want to lead their clients to a place of peace and happiness. By putting the emotional well-being of their clients first, they make sure that they are helped throughout the process.

2. A cost-effective approach:

Unlike some law firms that may push for expensive and long court fights, Pauw Attorneys believes in finding peaceful solutions whenever possible. By focusing on finding a solution and finding a middle ground, they help their clients avoid extra legal costs and mental stress.

3. Protecting Your Rights:

Pauw Attorneys are committed to protecting their clients' rights during divorce procedures, even though they try to find peaceful solutions. They will work hard to protect their clients' interests and make sure that everyone gets a good deal.

Counselling Services: Going through a divorce can be hard on your emotions. Pauw Attorneys offers counselling services to help clients deal with the stress and uncertainty that come with the end of a marriage. Throughout the process, these services offer helpful support and direction.

5. Pre-Divorce Consultations:

Pauw Attorneys offer pre-divorce consultations, during which they can evaluate the unique circumstances of each case and give helpful information on the best way to move forward. This proactive method lets clients make decisions about their futures that are based on facts.

6. Experience and knowledge:

Pauw Attorneys have a lot of experience in family law, so they know how to handle all the different parts of a divorce case. No matter if it's about child custody, dividing up property, or making a financial deal, clients can count on their skill.

7. Compassionate and understanding approach:

Pauw Attorneys handle each case with compassion and understanding because they know how hard it is for their clients on an emotional level. They make sure that clients feel safe and supported so that they can talk about their problems and get kind advice.

In conclusion, deciding to get a divorce is a big choice that will change your life and should be made carefully with the help of a professional.

Consulting with Pauw Attorneys can be a good idea because they put their clients' well-being first, offer cost-effective solutions, protect their rights, offer therapy services, and offer pre-divorce consultations.

Their method is based on years of experience and caring for their clients.

This makes sure that clients are guided through the process with the utmost care and attention.

Feel free to reach me on:

Tel. 0849987617

Email: info@pauwattorneys.co.za